For the past year and half my son has been living with his Dad in Miami. Yes, that is Miami FL, 3198 miles away from me and his sister. It is not easy. It was a decision that my ex and I made together. Amazingly, it works. Not for my heart but for my son. He is doing so well. I keep myself sane by telling myself he is at boarding school. I do not like to talk about it but it is a decision I stand by....I know that I have been judged and that is OK with me because I am doing what is best for my child and that is all I know how to do. I talk to him every day. This is a really hard post for me but I believe it is important for anyone reading this to understand the dynamics of my family, please don't try to rationalize it or understand us, because unless you are me, you will never understand. Just know that I love Nick with everything I am and that is why things are the way they are...

A little about Nicholas (aka. Nick, Nicki...) he is perfect....LOL.... from my point of view at least. He loves sports. He just finshed baseball....his team the Yankees won 7 out of 8 games...woohoo....He also loves music, mostly mainstream and R&B (gets this from his Dad), he knows the words to songs that I have never even heard of......He is smart (not really sure but his Dad and I think this is a recessive gene), he is in 2nd grade but in an advanced gifted program. He is thriving and I am a proud Mama!


